Learn from other's mistakes.

Words of advice:
1) Never become best friends with a boy.
2) If you do, make sure he is not your best friend's boyfriend.
3) Don't allow him to flirt with you.

Can i tell you a story? -It's definitely personal.
(the real names will be replaced with fake names, it's fun)

It was during the summer. She found someone to like, he was from a different school. She was a cheerleader. He was on the football team. And with time, they fell in love. Then there was me. I had just met him, and I loved the fact that they were together. I got involved, which i probably shouldn't have, -scratch that; I know i shouldn't have. But i just wanted to help their relationship out in any way possible, because i really cared for her, and i just wanted him to make her happy. So him and i, we became friends. We would talk, but not a lot. One night, we just became best friends. From then on we would talk everyday, but it wasn't like i liked him or he liked me, we were just friends. A couple weeks later (probably two) they broke up. She would always tell me that he liked me, and that was why they were over, but i didn't believe her, i mean after all, we were just friends. Months passed. They rarely talked. But i would still talk to him. One night in October we were texting, he was being awfully blunt and just confessed his love for me. He said that he was in love with me, and had been for the past two months. I was in shock, honestly. I told my mom about it, she said not to tell anyone because it shouldn't be made into a big deal. But what i didn't know was on that same night, he was texting her, and he told her exactly what he told me, that he loved me. Which he shouldn't have. Next day at school things were a mess, she was upset with me, but i couldn't blame her. I would of been too. Well life went on, we talked to each other, and turns out we became best friends. Literally. (love her to death) Time passed. I still talked to him. But just recently people were pressuring me to like him, (i was just getting over a rough time with another kid i liked) and i wasn't really up to liking him. Not just because i didn't want to, but because i honestly valued my friendship with her more than any relationship with him, and i didn't feel for him like that. (in all honesty, i tried to convince myself to like him, just to please people, but i couldn't and didn't and i still do not) A couple nights ago, i was blunt; i told him to move on. It was a really hard decision for me to make, but i did it for the best.

The point of this story is, girls:
Don't get involved with your friends boyfriends. (don't start paying attention to the boys they like)
Don't let them sweet talk you, that only leads to them beginning to have feelings for you.
Don't let your other friends try to convince you to like someone, if you don't. That only results in you being confused, and not knowing who you are.
And lastly, always remember that boys and girls can't be just friends. (at least not in all cases, half the time the boy will have feelings for you.)

But also, nothing is wrong with having a boy as your best friend. If you both know and make it clear to eachother that nothing is going on between you both.

Hope this little bit of advice helped. But honestly, i'm lost.
I just might be asking you readers for advice next, we all need some useful tips.

love youuuu.
Smile(: -it enhances your beauty.